Prince’s Trust Development Coach May-July 06

20 July 2006.

It’s the morning after the night before, the morning after an evening at The Oval to celebrate nine young people, from twelve, who took an opportunity given freely to try and make the most of themselves.

I’m looking at the certificate I too was presented with, which reads, “has successfully completed a course in personal and team development”. I feel proud in the knowledge that I have made a contribution and hopefully helped someone along the way.
When I first met this group I didn’t know what to expect and what the last three months would entail but was willing and open minded.

I first arrived at the Oval on May 2nd, Surrey were playing Gloucestershire and it brought back many memories, good and bad for me. It highlighted feelings of unfulfilled opportunity and unfulfilled potential, quite poignant given the programme we were about to embark upon. Would they take it? Would I last the course?
Everyone in the group had his or her own problems and personal issues.

The programme is one of personal development, concentrating on building self-confidence, self-esteem, communication skills and working as a team. During the weeks, I’ve packed bags in Sainsbury’s to collect money to take other children with psychological issue’s on a day out, I’ve been on outward bound adventure days, I’ve supported team members during work experience ventures, painted fences for a community project and more.

But what has it given me? That wasn’t something I’d really given much thought to. It’s given me a sense of worth. It’s stopped me from thinking about myself, it’s stopped me from isolating myself and it’s made me humble and grateful for what I have.

The experience will stay with me a long time, I will try and keep in touch with the group and will wonder how each one’s journey unfolds.
When I left and said my goodbyes, one member called me “Uncle Rich”. I never thought I’d get that reaction three months ago.

All I did was to give my time and should any member have time in the future to support the Prince’s Trust I would highly recommend it.

Richard Doughty